Are you with someone and you feel that he is not ready for a relationship? Do you feel that you are at the point where you should just move on?
This is one thing that many women ask themselves and if you are ready for a relationship and he isn’t, then maybe you need to think about moving on. Chances are, you need to walk away. How does that make you feel? Sad or upset?
You probably feel both sad and upset and if you want to be in a relationship right now, walking away does not feel like the happiest choice but it can be the best thing that you can do for yourself.
Relationships are never easy, but you always hope that they end perfectly. The real problem is that people look at happiness in different ways. We all have different ideas on what would make you happy and sometimes we are not just happy to spend time and have a companion, but we want more.
There are different ideas on what kind of relationship someone has. Being single means that you want to be on the same page as your partner.
If You Wait
If you wait for this person to love you, how long will you have to wait for? The waiting can get to a point where it lasts for years and years. What if then he decides that he is ready? What if you decide that you are tired of waiting or that you missed the chance to be with someone that could be perfect with you?
What if your partner never decides he wants to be in a real relationship or what if he finds someone that takes over his heart and he falls in love with them instead of you?
Waiting for someone to love you can break your heart. If you don’t want to put your life on hold, you shouldn’t. No one is worth sacrificing your whole life.
Why Isn’t He Ready?
There is always going to be his side of the story. The best thing is that someone would tell you that they aren’t ready instead of keeping you waiting. Maybe he just came out of a hard relationship and being with someone else scares him. That is good that he is honest with you but how long should you wait so that he can be ready for you?
A better idea is to learn to focus on who you are and to move forward in your life. Do not wait for him and do not keep looking at what he is doing. Do not avoid finding other people to meet and do not stalk him on social media.
This doesn’t mean that you cannot be friends with him. You need to put him out of your mind and not try to force a relationship that might not be meant to be.
What to Do?
Once you have had a conversation about wanting to be more serious, get it out of your mind. This will be hard and when you spend time away form them, you will see that you are just used to them being around you. Learn to let yourself go and find ways to stay busy.
You can find a new hobby and you can meet new people. Focus on who you are and learn to get more confident and happier so that you can have a good life.
When you like someone and they don’t feel the same, they can cause you to feel bad about who you are and to feel sorry for yourself.
If you have shown someone that you are interested and they see you out having a good life, they will be curious and there is a chance that he will see that he is missing out on you and he may want to take the relationship to the next level.
You need to be with someone that loves you and someone that is there for you now. The best way is to listen to his honest and to move on.
Do not wait for someone that is not ready for you when you are ready. The more you wait the more you will regret it. This could cause you to be bitter and to miss out on your good life.
There is always a chance that you will get a chance to be with him in the future but take time while you can understand your own situation and to be happy. Allow your future to develop and to let you be the best person that you can be.