These tips may work better for you than others. You can, therefore, apply them since you know yourself better.
- Let him feel needed (but do not be needy)
I know you are an independent lady who doesn’t need a man. But the reality is, men like to feel like they are needed. Throw it back to the time when they were the providers and protectors of the relationship.
This may require work if you have been single for a while and very independent. Ask for help next time when you know something that your man might be good at.
You will not only give him purpose but will also make you feel nice since you’ll have someone to rely on in times of need.
- Let him miss you
You might want to spend every time with this man since you have already fallen for him. Maybe that’s what he needs too.
It’s healthy for couples to have some time apart. It gives you that opportunity to undertake tasks on your own or spend time with friends (do not be that lady who forgets her friends once she’s in a relationship). This will definitely give you something to talk about when you meet. Being away from each for a while brings balance in the relationship and gives you the chance to miss one another.
- If he deserves to be complimented, do it
Just to be clear, I don’t recommend that you kiss his ass each and every time. Just be free with compliments. If you think he looks good in that shirt, why not tell him.
Have you ever thought of how good it feels when somebody compliments you? It feels good. So why don’t you let that guy also feel good? If something’s great about him, tell him, let him know.
- You should let your real nature shine
Some dating specialists always tell women to deem their lights and not let them shine. This is pure crap. If you happen to do this, then the guy will just have an impression that you are dumb. Be real once you’ve started knowing each other, your personality might be a plus.
The right person will fall in love with you for who you’re.
There’s no need to pretend. Just show off your personality and character so that he can be aware of what he’s getting himself into.
- Get attracted to his masculinity
Men like to be admired, especially their masculinity. I, however, don’t advocate of the fact that you should faint every time you see him.
Masculinity has more do with acting with honor, treating people well and being chivalrous. It’s not all about muscles and testosterone.
Being vulnerable and empathetic is real masculinity. It’s all about being the best partner. Therefore, regardless of what it means to you, just let him know that you are attracted to these qualities.
- Be patient
Being patient is one of the ways to make a man fall in love with you., therefore, I won’t add more. Follow this advice if you feel like you’ll be annoyed if you don’t profess your love for him. Share your feelings with your friend. She will be of help to you. He’ll let you know if he doesn’t have feelings for you to save you from being embarrassed.
I don’t suggest that the man should be the one to say I love you first. But there’s the need for him to process his feeling on the subject first.
Know that you are likely to get disappointed if you rush things.